Blessed
are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil
against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven,
for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
Matthew 5:11
I’ve always
been a square peg in a round hole world.
I remember trying as a kid to be like other children, and woefully
failing. I’m sure some of that was due
to my being a little girl with ADHD at a time when only little boys were on the
radar for such things, but my desire to sing early in the morning and my inability
to stop talking and eat my lunch was only part of the quirky little puzzle
known as yours truly. I was also one of
the few kids I knew in school who went to church. I didn’t go to birthday parties that were
scheduled on Sunday mornings. I didn’t
listen to music that had swearing or sex in it.
Even in elementary school, that made me different, and one more reason
why I stuck out like a sore thumb. I
remember clinging to teachers for companionship and support during the first
nine years of school, a sort of “substitute mom” until I could return to the
safety of my home, where I was loved, not just in spite of, but because of my
uniqueness. Understandably, I wanted to
be protected and defended from a world that didn’t seem to understand or like
me.
By the time
high school rolled around, the few kids who had a beef with me, my faith or
both didn’t bother me, because I had found “my tribe”—the art and music freaks
and geeks. In that group of students,
there were people of no faith, differing faiths and my faith. I had friends who smoked, drank and did
drugs, as well as some who abstained. I
had gotten used to affectionately being called, “Sister Mary Catherine” by
friends whose lifestyles varied from mine.
They didn’t see me as a threat.
Ironically, in high school, my opposition came from two teachers.
I remember
sitting in art class, while a substitute teacher eyed me warily. I wasn’t doing anything out of the ordinary
for me, but she didn’t trust me. She
brought me up to her desk and said, “Alright, just tell the truth. What are you on?” I told her nothing. She asked me what on earth could make my
pupils that big and cause me to smile this early in the morning. I told her the truth—I professed the name of
the One who had made my pupils that big and gave me a reason to smile during
first period: JESUS.
Apparently,
that was proof I was on something, and I was sent to the nurse. When I popped my head into her office, the
dear lady who saw me every day for my hypoglycemia snacks couldn’t help but
laugh. She knew my pupils were naturally
large, I loved art class and yes, I loved Jesus. We had a chuckle about it and she sent me
back to class. It was a little weird,
but certainly not a life-changing occurrence.
My science
teacher (We’ll call him Mr. K), however, attacked my faith directly. A student teacher, who was also a Christian, had
taught with Mr. K earlier in the year. Among
many other life lessons, the student teacher shared with me the importance of
studying evolution, because it was school curriculum. He told me that the outside world will never
respect and consider your views if you don’t know where they’re coming from,
where you agree and where your views differ.
However, if I chose to do a separate report on the Intelligent Design
theory (with reputable sources to back up my position), I could share it during
the last five minutes of class for extra credit.
When we were almost done with our
evolution chapter, I went to Mr. K. and told him I was ready to schedule my
extra credit report. He snorted, shook
his head and said, “Why would anyone listen to you? I will not permit you to waste my time on
this mythological B.S.”
Shocked and angry, I brought this information
to my principal. My teacher was forced
to apologize, but I was never permitted to share my data (He always “ran out of
class time”). I got a decent grade in
his class, but Mr. K never looked at me the same after that discussion. In his eyes, my faith made me an idiot. I couldn’t get a note from the nurse clearing
my name this time.
Jesus knew more about this feeling
than anyone. He’d been called crazy, a
liar, a blasphemer and worse. The way He
loved, the words He spoke and the mission He came to complete made him a
target. He knew we would someday be
insulted, hated and, in some parts of the world, even killed for being who He
had called us to be. He said we would be
BLESSED because of it.
Does anybody else struggle with
this one? It would be easy if we were
called to be different and were encouraged to freak out on people who insult
us. I’d be all over debating to the
death in my defense—it’s what passionate people do! But we are called to simply love those who
hate us, lie about us and yes, even those who wish us harm, and let Him be our
avenger. UUUUUUUGH, I don’t wanna! I’ll love ‘em, but I want to have my
say! Unfortunately, Jesus didn’t put a
rebuttal clause in to loving those who hate you. Sometimes you have the opportunity to
respond, sometimes you don’t. But if
Jesus could keep silent and love as He died for the sins of all humanity (yours
truly included), surely I can rest in knowing that the same God who made me
quirky, loud and enthusiastic will equip me to love in the face of adversity.
